In addition to our support groups, we provide a number of valuable resources to aid in the journey from grief to healing. These resources range from our HOPELine newsletter, which provides a bi-monthly package of self-help resources, to our blog posts that outline simple ways to cope with grief and help others cope as well.
Grief is a normal and natural reaction to the death of a loved one. Most of us are not prepared for the long journey of grief which is sometimes devastating, frightening, and often lonely. We may think, do, and say things that are very unlike us. There seems to be no end to the intense feelings that we experience.
Grief has been likened to a raw open wound. With great care it eventually will heal but there will always be a scar. Life will never be the same but eventually your grief will soften.
The elements of grief have been compared to enduring a fierce storm at sea. The waves are peaked and close together. Eventually the sea becomes calmer but occasionally the storm regroups, strengthening without any warning. For several hours, days or weeks you may not feel grief; then suddenly you meet someone or see something, or hear something, and grief resumes. It seems as if you are taking one step forward and two back.
Grief has its common and its unique sides. Although it is a universal experience, no two people grieve the same, even in the same family. Like a snowflake or a fingerprint, each person’s grief has characteristics all its own.
We welcome your stories of coping, understanding, and growing through grief, to help others who are hurting. If you would like your story considered for publication, please email your entry.
HOPE for Bereaved, Inc. provides education for professionals interested in learning about grief and how to support the bereaved. The ideal attendee is currently working with, or may at some point work with, grieving people. Whether you’re a direct care staff working with a grieving client, or a manager interested in learning how to support your grieving staff, HOPE can help.
For more information or to discuss your particular needs, call HOPE at 315.475.9675.
HOPEline is HOPE for Bereaved’s bi-monthly newsletter created to support those who are grieving, connect our community, and keep partners and supporters informed about the work being done through HOPE.
Each issue features personal stories, insights from grief professionals, monthly reflections, and information on events and programs. Whether you are grieving, supporting someone who is, or involved in our mission, HOPEline is a resource to help you stay connected and informed.
To receive HOPEline by email or mail, or call us at (315) 475-9675.